Compliments

I am a woman. According to Chris Rock I need three things food, water, and compliments. I agree. I try not to fish for compliments from men or women, but I am trying to learn how to accept them gracefully when they come. Compliments make a woman like me, who's self esteem fluctuates like a diabetics blood sugar level  even out for the most part. And in all honesty I like it, I like it, I really really like it. If I had any good sense, which I don't, I would say something like I rather a man call me beautiful instead of hot but that just aint the truth. If you see me, you like me, and can say it without calling me a bitch then bring on the lovin'.
Tell me I have a fat ass, or that my "girls" look extra attentive today, or that I have beautiful thighs, or even that I look lickable (just don't actually lick me. post coming soon.) And of course my all time favorite and the thing that might get you some of that becky is to compliment my hair. Tell me you like the kinks and I am yours, at least for the next several minutes.
I believe today's man has lost sight of how far a simple compliment can go with a woman. Big cars, chains, and money in rubberbands are cool if your're looking for a hoodrat but a simple "you look so pretty today" can take her attitude from "nigga please" to" nigga how can I please you?"
Women, or at least the ones like me, want to be the submissive, cooking, cleaning (but still aint no punk) type wife for a man, but it's very hard to find yourself interested in a man when the most suave thing he can think to say is "I'ma make it rain bitch."
Now you might ask why is it so important for a man to constantly reassure a woman of her attractiveness blah, blah, blah and I would answer its the same reason men ask "who's p*ssy is this?"or "what's my name?" during intercourse. It just makes you feel good about yourself. Compliments get you in the door, however meaning them keeps you there. Nothing is worse than someone giving you a compliment out of sympathy or to shut you up. Ever found out your girl faked it? Yea, same concept.
So what I'm trying to say is, tell me a woman how wonderful I she is. Whether she is your mother, sister, friend, girlfriend, baby mama, or a random woman you see during the day, it will make the world a better place.
Two points if she's black, Five if she has natural hair, and a 10$ gas card if you mean it.